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Why Sexual Addicts Choose to Disclose Their Addiction God's Design

Dr. Floyd Godfrey The reasons sexual addicts disclose their struggles are as varied as the individuals themselves. While the journey to disclosure is often fraught with fear and uncertainty, it...

Lies That Sex Addicts Tell Themselves: Breaking Barriers to Get Help for Sex Addiction

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Sex addiction is a pervasive issue that can profoundly affect individuals and their relationships. According to Patrick Carnes (2015), many sex addicts maintain harmful...

Overcoming Pornography Addiction: A Journey of Healing Together

Dr. Floyd Godfrey Overcoming pornography addiction with your wife’s support can be one of the most transformative experiences in marriage. It fosters openness, breaks down the walls of...

Preparing for Disclosure: A Key to Recovery from Pornography Addiction

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD The journey to recovery from pornography addiction is fraught with challenges, but it also offers profound opportunities for healing and growth. Among these challenges,...

Self-Awareness and Jesus' Love in Overcoming Pornography Addiction

Dr. Floyd Godfrey The Role of Self-Awareness in Recovery Self-awareness is a vital step in healing from pornography addiction. Patrick Carnes writes, “Typical addicts do not know much...

Surviving Character Assassination

Dr. Floyd Godfrey Character assassination can be a devastating experience, especially when false information about you is publicized. The emotional toll of such an attack can leave a lasting...

The Importance of Self-Care in Pornography Addiction Recovery

Dr. Floyd Godfrey Understanding Self-Care in Recovery Self-care is a foundational element of recovery from pornography addiction. As Patrick Carnes explains, “Neglect is a common problem...

The Loss of Emotional Connection in Marriages Affected by Pornography Addiction

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Understanding the Emotional Disconnect Pornography addiction profoundly disrupts emotional intimacy within marriage. Over the past 24 years, I have observed a consistent...

The Positive Impact of Cellphone Bans on Student Mental Health in Ohio Schools

Dr. Floyd Godfrey With the growing dependence on smartphones among young people, schools across the United States are grappling with their impact on academic performance, social interactions, and...

The Role of Accountability in Overcoming Pornography Addiction

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Pornography addiction is a struggle that impacts countless men, often in silence. Over the years, in my clinical practice, I have observed how deeply secrecy and shame...

The Role of Self-Awareness in Sexual Addiction Recovery

Dr. Floyd Godfrey Self-Awareness Through Reflection Developing self-awareness is vital for recovery from sexual addiction, as it fosters a deeper understanding of one’s thoughts,...

The Transformative Power of the First Step to Overcome Addiction

Dr. Floyd Godfrey The Significance of the First Step The First Step in recovery programs is one of the most critical moments for individuals seeking freedom from addiction. It requires...

Understanding Betrayal Trauma in the Wake of Infidelity

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD The revelation of a spouse’s infidelity is a devastating experience that often leads to profound emotional and psychological distress, known as betrayal trauma. This...

Wives' Trauma After Discovering a Husband's Pornography Addiction

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD The discovery of a husband's pornography addiction is often deeply traumatic for wives, disrupting the trust and emotional safety fundamental to a marital bond. This...

A Teenager's Addiction to Pornography and Early Childhood Exposure

Dr. Floyd Godfrey The Loss of Innocence Exposure to pornography at a young age is a perilous issue affecting countless children worldwide. For Mark Houck, whose story is shared in Matt...

Admitting When You Need Counseling for Pornography Addiction

Dr. Floyd Godfrey God has lovingly provided guidance about our sexuality, designed to help us live spiritually and emotionally healthy lives. Yet, in a world where temptations abound, struggling...

Adolescent Mental Health During the Holidays

Dr. Floyd Godfrey The holiday season, often depicted as a time of joy and togetherness, can present unique challenges for adolescents, particularly those grappling with mental health issues. The...

Finding Freedom Through Accountability: The Key to Overcoming Pornography Addiction

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD The Importance of Accountability Overcoming pornography addiction is a deeply personal but not solitary journey. Accountability plays a pivotal role in recovery, acting as...

God's Commandments Are Safety Boundaries

By Dr. Floyd Godfrey In a world often marred by chaos and confusion, God’s commandments stand as clear boundaries designed for our well-being. While some may mistakenly see these boundaries...

Addiction Recovery and a Period of Celibacy - Help for Sexual Addiction Recovery

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD In the journey of recovering from sexual addiction, a period of celibacy can serve as a powerful tool for personal healing and reclaiming a balanced, healthy relationship...

Christmas and Connection While Struggling with Sexual Addiction

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD The holiday season, especially Christmas, is often associated with joy, connection, and tradition. However, for individuals struggling with pornography or sexual addiction,...

Courage in the Face of Difficulty

Dr. Floyd Godfrey The Call to Courage Life's challenges often demand more of us than we feel prepared to give. Scripture, however, reminds us to face such moments with courage. As Clinton...

How Childhood Abuse Contributes to Sexual Compulsivity

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Childhood abuse is a profound factor in the development of sexual compulsivity among both men and women. The psychological and physiological impact of abuse leaves imprints...

How Faulty Core Beliefs Anchor Sexual Addiction

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Faulty core beliefs are pivotal in understanding the development and perpetuation of sexual addiction. My clinical observations with men struggling in this area consistently...

Impaired Thinking of a Sex Addiction and Getting Help for Sexual Addiction

Sexual addiction often leads to impaired thinking—a state in which rational thought is overridden by emotional and compulsive responses. Many individuals struggling with sex addiction have sat...

Intimacy Anorexia: A Symptom of Betrayal Trauma

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD The Hidden Strain of Betrayal Trauma Betrayal trauma, often stemming from infidelity or pornography addiction, manifests in profound emotional and relational struggles....

Intimacy Anorexia and Intimate Betrayal

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Intimate betrayal leaves deep emotional scars, often rooted in intimacy anorexia and compounded by pornography addiction. This painful combination can leave individuals...

Intimate Betrayal and Intimacy Anorexia - Coping with Pain

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD The pain of intimate betrayal runs deep, especially for wives facing the fallout of their husband’s struggles with intimacy anorexia and pornography addiction. Over my...

Loneliness as a Trigger for Pornography Addiction

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Loneliness is a powerful emotional state, often overlooked as a significant trigger for pornography addiction. As a clinician specializing in sexual addiction recovery for...

Mental Health in 2025: Hope for the Future

Dr. Floyd Godfrey The year 2025 marks a pivotal moment in addressing global mental health challenges. With one in five people experiencing mental health conditions worldwide, the landscape of...

Navigating Mental Health Struggles During the Holiday Season

Dr. Floyd Godfrey The holiday season is a time of joy and celebration, but for many, it can also be a period of profound emotional struggle. While the world around us seems filled with...

Pornhub's Response to Expanding Age-Verification Laws

Dr. Floyd Godfrey In recent years, legislative efforts across the United States have intensified to restrict minors’ access to online pornography. As of December 2024, Pornhub, one of the...

Rituals and the Sexual Addiction Cycle

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Sexual addiction is a pervasive and challenging issue that impacts individuals and relationships. Understanding the dynamics of sexual addiction is critical for effective...

The Biblical Role of Parents to Teach Their Sons About Sexuality and Pornography

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Talking to your sons about sexuality and pornography addiction can feel daunting for many parents. Unfortunately, many adolescents stumble into the world of pornography...

The Divine Role of Fathers in Their Daughters' Lives

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Understanding a Daughter’s Heart Fathers play a unique and irreplaceable role in the lives of their daughters. This role transcends mere provision and protection,...

The End is Just the Beginning: Lessons from the Bible

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Death Brings Life In the Christian journey, the principle that the end of one season heralds the beginning of another is profoundly illustrated in the Bible. Jesus...

The Importance Fathers Make in the Lives of Their Daughters

Dr. Floyd Godfrey Fathers play a profoundly influential role in shaping their daughters' lives. Yet, this vital role often competes with the demands of modern life, including work, hobbies,...

The Pathological Need for Admiration in Narcissists

Dr. Floyd Godfrey Narcissism, marked by an inflated sense of self-importance and a profound need for validation, often masks deep insecurities and a fragile self-esteem. The pathological need for...

Using the "Fast-Forward" Tool in Pornography Addiction Recovery

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Understanding the Fast-Forward Tool Pornography addiction can often trap individuals in a cycle of impulsivity, where short-term gratification overshadows the long-term...

When Sex Addicts Hit Bottom: Surrendering to God

By Dr. Floyd Godfrey Reaching the lowest point of sexual addiction is often the beginning of profound transformation. Many individuals suffering from sex addiction describe this as "hitting...

Powerlessness and God as Key in Overcoming Sexual Addiction

Dr. Floyd Godfrey Sexual addiction is a pervasive issue that deeply impacts individuals and their relationships. It is characterized by a loss of control over sexual behaviors and an inability to...

Raising Boys and Unlocking Their Unique Ways of Connection

By Dr. Floyd Godfrey Boys navigate the world with distinct ways of expressing emotions and forming relationships, often challenging societal stereotypes. Understanding these nuances can...

The Importance of Fathers in Raising Sons with Integrity and Strength

Dr. Floyd Godfrey The challenge of raising sons to be men of responsibility and integrity is profound. In a culture where fatherhood can be undervalued, Christian fathers are called to embrace...

The Trancelike State of Preoccupation in Sexual Addiction

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Preoccupation is a critical phase in the sexual addiction cycle that reflects the psychological grip of this behavior on individuals. In this phase, individuals experience a...

Is Shame the Primary Motivator in Pornography Addiction Recovery?

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Shame often drives individuals struggling with pornography addiction to seek change. However, I have witnessed firsthand how shame—whether internalized or externally...

Recovery from Sexual Addiction: Addressing Intimacy Woundedness

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Sexual addiction is a pervasive issue that affects individuals across various age groups, including men and youth. As a clinical sexologist, I have worked extensively with...

Shame as a Poor Motivator for Addressing Pornography Addiction

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Shame often drives individuals struggling with pornography addiction to seek change. However, I have witnessed firsthand how shame—whether internalized or externally...

Transformation as the Core Goal of Sexual Addiction Recovery

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Sobriety is often the initial focus for individuals seeking recovery from sexual addiction, but true freedom lies in transformation—a fundamental shift in one’s...

How Narcissists Manage Internal Envy

Dr. Floyd Godfrey The dynamics of narcissistic personality traits often reveal a troubling interplay of superiority, shame, and envy. For narcissists, envy is not merely a fleeting feeling but a...

The Hidden Harms of Sexually Addicted Behavior

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Sexual addiction is often associated with private struggles and personal pain, but its effects extend far beyond the individual. Hidden harms caused by sexually addicted...
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